You are Perfect

Once, someone who dear to me said to me (more of hoping-complaining actually) after she heard a song sang by "Andra and the Backbone" titled "Sempurna" (meaning: perfect) that she wished her boyfriend (or someone, I don't know whether she had one or not) said the words that she is perfect, in anyway he looked at her. I remember I was smiling when I heard she said those words.
Well, didn't all men who are falling in love to their woman will said those words? Some probably said them so their woman will know, some probably write those words in a letter and send it to her so she can read his words. Some Probably express the words "you are perfect" doing some action so she can see it.
So many ways for men express those words so their woman can feel it, and you, woman of all people cannot understand them all? It just because women ego which refuse to see and feel what the men trying to "say". One women said, I'll understand and felt what men do if you send me flower. Another will understand if he said it bluntly. Another want it with a kindness. While some other will feel the words if he give her a diamond. Ooohh... The hell with your ego!
That was the reason why I was smiled when I her her said those words. The other reason was that, even after some time I haven't met her, and after all the commotion I did in between. Every time I came in contact with her in any means, she is perfect in anyway I see her.  So I was smiled again but this time a bitter one.