Birthday

For most of people celebrating their birthday(s) is really a must thing to do. The cake, the candles, the balloon, the singing and the people are mixing together, creating a kind of party of their own wishes. For some people the even willing to pay off large sum of money so they can create a party of thier own. You gotta admit, for some occasion, the party itself can be used as a device to shows to others, level status of the party owner in a society strata. Well I'm not aginst them for having such party though. It is their life, their money and their birthday so they can do anything about it for all I care.
For me such party is meaningless. Yes, it is true that by having such party you can share some of the happiness of yourself to others. But for me it is a shame to have such thing. Everytime I wanted a celebrated something for myself, I always ask this question. What deed did I do til I deserve such kind of celebration? The samething with a birthday celebration. Why I should celebrated my lessen time here on this world? Do I really have confidence that each time pass by I move one step closer to heaven?
Some people said it is OK, it is just for showing how much people care to you. Well, I say, no need a day like one's birthday to show how much you care to that person. You can do it anytime you like, by any means. Even if the person doesn't know or care, you can still do it though... :).